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The New Zealand Medical Journal

 Journal of the New Zealand Medical Association, 11-November-2005, Vol 118 No 1225

‘Woman bites dog’—making sense of media and research reports that claim women and men are equally violent
Janice Giles
Abstract
The media are quick to exploit research reports that appear to show women and men are equally violent. Unfortunately, while such reports contradict the observations of experienced medical workers, police, court personnel, and Women’s Refuge workers, they do influence public perceptions and may undermine policies designed to prevent and reduce male partner violence against women. This article examines research claims of women’s equivalent violence and explains why study outcomes claiming equal violence must not be accepted at face value.

We hear and read about violent acts every day in the media. Men are the perpetrators of the vast majority of these acts. That’s not news. Men’s violence is so commonplace as to be unremarkable. However, any suggestion of women’s violence achieves media prominence, whenever it arises.
Comments in both popular media and academic journals citing research that women are as violent, or more violent, than men are perennial. (For example: a television ‘documentary’ in which it is stated that ‘ research shows women are more violent than men’,1 and a television news item headlining study claims of a high incidence of violence against partners by Pacific Island women.).2 Such statements are difficult to reconcile with worker experience in the field of domestic violence and partner abuse, and are of particular concern when cited in that context. This is a contentious issue and it is important not to be naïve about the implications of such comment.
Claims of ‘who hits who the most’ are debated in a sociopolitical context that allows those with the most credible ‘case’ to define the problem, or even if there is a problem, and whether it is morally worthy of solution.
This article explores how the ‘fact’ of women’s violence misrepresents the experience of women in abusive and violent relationships. Literature cited in support of this viewpoint is representative rather than an exhaustive compilation of all that is available.

Are women violent, just like men?

Numerous studies, including New Zealand studies3,4 that are cited in the media, make claims that women use violent acts in their relationships at least as often as men; however, any such conclusion requires further examination for the following reasons:
  • The research is cited out of context and is based on studies of conflict between ‘ordinary’ couples in populations that do not have a known history of violence or abuse5—i.e. couples are not sourced or referred from police, Women’s Refuge, or other social agencies.
  • Almost all of these studies use a questionnaire called the Conflict Tactics Scale (CTS), which is not designed for application to populations with an established history of abuse, and has many limitations if applied in that context or is assumed to have been applied in that context.
  • Violence is a complex social problem arising from and sustained by multiple sources of oppression including race, class, and gender. Studies claiming ‘equal’ violence by men and women in intimate partnership reflect inadequate conceptualisations of violence, neglect analysis of imbalances in power between genders,6 and do not consider how socially-constructed gendered expectations of behaviour influence the motivations for and responses to violence.
There are important methodological differences between often gender-neutral quantitative research (which primarily relies on counting violent acts based on information supplied by individual respondents) and those studies which include a qualitative and gendered analysis.7
  • Some researchers underestimate the potential for inaccurate or biased reporting, particularly in abusive relationships that may not yet be known as such.
  • Studies do not measure the outcomes of violence—i.e. the severity and/or frequency of injury, or the longer-term effects of living with fear of violence.
Citing research out of context
Violence as an expression of family conflict and violence that is used as an instrument to control or punish a partner is not differentiated.8 Understanding violent acts requires knowledge of such factors as motivation and consequences. When media comment suggests that research ‘proves’ women are as violent as men, the contexts are seldom provided (and may not even have been assessed as part of the research). Studies showing that women are ‘equally’ violent are based on interviews with couples (or, most frequently, with only one partner) in ‘ordinary’ relationships where violence is minor, does not escalate in severity, and injury rates are low.
Women victims of male partner violence are unlikely to be included in studies of family conflict because patterns of control, punishment, and social isolation by her partner are likely to preclude her participation. In addition, when women leave an abusive relationship or seek help, violence typically increases in lethality9—but ex-partners are not included in ‘family’ studies, so these potentially high-risk relationships are excluded, as are behaviours common to abusive ex-partners such as stalking and harassment.

The Conflict Tactics Scale (CTS) is not designed for use in a ‘domestic violence’ context

The majority of claims that ‘women’s violence is equivalent to men’s violence’ are based on the use of a questionnaire: the ‘Conflict Tactics Scale’ developed in the United States of America,10 which counts tactics used by ‘ordinary’ couples when resolving conflict or expressing negative moods. The CTS has a long history of use and, as a consequence, may be uncritically accepted by generalist researchers in multidisciplinary studies as a convenient tool for assessing domestic violence without consideration of CTS limitations in that context. Other researchers might use the CTS so that outcomes can be compared with international studies.
In New Zealand, the CTS has been predominantly applied to epidemiological and longitudinal studies such as the Dunedin longitudinal study, which interviewed a birth cohort of 21-year-olds,3 and more recently to a cohort of Pacific mothers.4 Internationally, there has been considerable objection to CTS based research claiming equal violence, with the majority of objections focussing on the inappropriate generalisation of outcomes to the context of domestic violence.8
Using the CTS as the sole measure is not appropriate for application to populations in which violence and abuse is known to occur in the relationship (e.g. populations known to Women’s Refuge or Stopping Violence programmes) for the following reasons:
  • The CTS presupposes an ‘ordinary’ relationship and ‘normalises’ conflict by enquiring what happens at times ‘when couples disagree, get annoyed with the other person, or just have spats or fights because they’re in a bad mood or tired or for some other reason’11 (p217).
  • The CTS counts the frequency of tactics (including violence) used for managing conflict over a previous 12-month period but is not designed to identify patterns of domination, coercion, and control.
  • The CTS does not provide a context for acts of violence, which can create misleading outcomes. For example, he attempts to strangle her and she defends herself by kicking, biting, and hitting. In this example, he has committed one act of violence and she has committed three.
  • The CTS most commonly finds violence that is ‘relatively minor and relatively infrequent’ and this cannot be compared to the situation in populations where there is an established history of violence, and in which men are the predominant aggressors12 (p215). The CTS does not count homicides, which are most commonly acts by men.13
  • The CTS does not measure the consequences of violence (i.e. frequency of injury or severity of injury). Men have higher rates of dangerous and severe forms of violence, repeat their violence more often, and do more damage with their violence. Relatively few women, even in mutually violent relationships, use violence that is likely to cause serious injury.12
  • The CTS does not assess fear of potential violence and injury, or the impact of living with ongoing fear. Women in violent relationships are afraid of their partner’s aggression, while men are seldom afraid.14,15
  • The CTS does not explore the motivation for violence (e.g. self-defence; or to control another person). Motives for men’s violence in relationship are typically to control via coercion or punishment; and assaults by men are commonly part of a pattern of intimidation and fear.11 Motives for women’s violence are often aimed at reducing abuse in their own lives9 and women’s violence is frequently in self-defence but may include ‘pre-emptive strikes’ when anticipating violence from a partner.12
  • The CTS defines types of violence very broadly8 and there is insufficient differentiation between specific acts—e.g. ‘kicked, bitten, or hit your partner with a fist’ are counted as the same. Actual severity of the violent act remains ambiguous, with potential for wide variation in outcome and intention within categories.
  • Studies using the CTS do not count sexual coercion and sexual abuse, which are common experiences of women with abusive male partners. Consequently, if he attempts to force her to have sex and she fights back, her actions are counted as violence while his are not.
  • The CTS is applied retrospectively with potentially selective remembering and disclosure. Both women and men in abusive relationships tend to minimise men’s violence and remember women’s violence.16
Researchers making use of the CTS have a responsibility to ensure that all reports explain why findings do not fit with hospital, police, family court, and community worker experience. Where possible, research needs to be balanced by taking different perspectives. This was done in the Dunedin studies, which undertook two separate interviews on the same day with the same group of participants. One study utilised the CTS,3 and the other asked questions about assault and allowed for inclusion of ex-partners.17 There were significant differences in outcomes, with the CTS based study showing that men and women have similar participation rates in violent acts, while the study on physical assault found more than four times as many women experienced assault by a male partner than men who experienced assault by a woman partner.
The designers of the CTS are also concerned about the misapplication of study outcomes by generalisation to other populations. They note that separate measures for context, assault, and injury are needed to demonstrate that men’s violence results in more injury, and that context is necessary to give meaning to outcomes of research that use this instrument.10
The CTS has been revised (CTS2) and new studies may include scales to measure injury and sexual coercion. Qualitative methodologies that allow participants to describe and define their experience, rather than respond to a selection of possibilities chosen by others, would provide valuable data for understanding context and motivation.

Limited consideration of gender, power, and motivation for violence in a context of intimate relationship

Family violence research commonly includes interest in demographics such as employment, ethnicity, and age that epidemiological studies provide. Such generic studies are useful, for example, in assessing correlates of poverty and education with violence. Family violence studies tend to focus on counting violent acts; assume that men and women are equally powerful and that violent acts are equivalent; and commonly find ‘symmetrical’ violence (i.e. men and women are equally violent).7,8
In contrast, researchers who focus on ‘violence against women’ in a domestic context of ‘battering’ or ‘intimate partner violence’ claim that violence is ‘asymmetrical’, with men more likely to perpetuate violence than women. This latter form of research includes an understanding of the context of violent acts within intimate relationships (where power is unequal) and a wider ‘constellation of abuse’ experienced by women in relationship with a violent or abusive partner.7
An analysis of gendered attitudes and expectations within society also provides context for understanding motivations for violent behaviour and the outcomes of violence, particularly when social attitudes support male authority over females in the family. These methodological differences (in conceptualising violence) mean that counting acts of violence in ordinary couples cannot claim to represent research on battering, and unqualified reports of equivalent violence in the media are misleading and irresponsible.
Current understanding of male partner violence against women is informed by analysis of socially constructed, gendered expectations of men and women, and the disparity in social power held by men and women as groups within society. Women’s socialisation generally discourages expressions of aggression while men’s violence, both public and private, is sanctioned by cultural beliefs that such behaviour is ‘manly’. Men’s violence is generally more humiliating, controlling, and coercive14 and, when a relationship includes systematic patterns of intimidation and control by male partners, just one violent act can generate a climate of fear that establishes male dominance and female obedience.16
Women’s violence must be examined in the context of their partner’s violence against them; is seldom equivalent to men’s violence in intent, frequency, severity, or outcome;14 and is commonly in response to frustration, stress, or a manifestation of ‘slap the cad’, expressing moral indignation when insulted by a man11 (p216). Moreover, women are more likely to participate in minor acts of reciprocal violence in ‘ordinary couples’ because it is relatively safe to do so.
When women do use more serious violence, it is likely to be in a relationship where they are also victims of violence.9,12 Women do fight back to defend themselves although this may escalate violence, and women who use violence in their relationship often have significant histories of prior victimisation by a partner while male perpetrators do not.15,18

Inaccurate or biased reporting of perpetration and victimisation

In studies of couples that are likely to include more violence and abuse (such as younger couples),10 it is useful to consider gendered dynamics of blame and self-blame that are at their most extreme in abusive relationships. Abusive men commonly minimise and deny their own abuse and violence in relationship, or define their actions as justified responses to some perceived transgression of their partner.19–21 But in a relationship with an abusive man, women are blamed and take responsibility for any conflict, perceiving their own actions as ‘causing’ their partner’s behaviour.
They excuse the abuse, minimise his violence, and focus attention on trying to make themselves better partners.22 An abusive male partner acknowledges less of his violence while his partner is likely to acknowledge every act of hers;7 and he exaggerates her violence to justify his own. This is particularly likely when women partners are young as well as earlier in the relationship.22 Such distortions may explain reported study outcomes that find couple agreement on undifferentiated scale measures but not on specific acts23 and may undermine accurate reporting even if both partners participate.

The relative severity of violence

When either women or men are victims of violence, the perpetrator is likely to be male—i.e. violence done to men is most commonly male-on-male violence.24
Women are more frequently victimised by violent partners, and experience more injury and more severe injury in violent relationships,16 with assaults by men producing six times the rate of injury of assaults by women.12 A significant New Zealand study focussed on incidences of physical assault in a previous 12-month period found that women are approximately 4.5 times more likely then men to be assaulted by a partner with 2.6 times the rate of assault, and are more severely harmed by such assaults.17
In addition to the potential for physical injury, living in fear and experiencing the psychological and emotional abuse that accompanies violence from a male partner can have extremely serious long-term mental health effects.25–27

The implications of assuming equivalent violence by women

Academics should be cautious when reporting on gendered violence based solely on findings of the CTS. In New Zealand, this scale has been used in major and highly reputable studies. The outcomes are entirely consistent with international studies using the CTS, but there are serious flaws in the methodology when generalised to domestic violence.
Comments made in the media that ‘research shows women are as violent as men’ must be taken seriously. Not because such statements are ‘true’, but because they influence public perceptions and subsequent responses toward women who experience violence and abuse from male partners. Such media claims invariably lack context; are based on populations of ‘ordinary’ couples (not couples whose relationship includes ‘serious’ violence); seldom include analysis of power and gender in violent relationships; and do not include injury outcomes, motivation for violence, or the meaning of the violence for either partner.
It remains important to maintain perspective and to remember that most men are not violent toward their relationship partners. Although violence by women against their partners is uncommon, women can indeed be violent and there is no intention here to excuse or condone women’s violence. However, comments in the media that women are more violent than men create exploitable distortions that have potentially serious implications for women.
A focus on women’s violence shifts attention away from men’s violence against women, and abusive men frequently claim ‘women are violent too’ to provide moral justification for their own behaviour. Public perceptions that women are just as violent as men reduce sympathy for victims on the assumption that they ‘deserved it’. Politically, the intention of those who claim that women are ‘equally’ violent may be to encourage the reduction of services and resources for women in violent and abusive relationships. As prophetically noted by Murray Straus, creator of the CTS, ‘the statistics are likely to be used by misogynists and apologists for male violence’11 (p.217).
Author information: Janice R Giles, Researcher, Auckland
Correspondence: Janice Giles, c/o PO Box 33-681, Takapuna, Auckland. Email: geewiz@ihug.co.nz
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